All posts by Laura Sims

“Yes” to the Person, “No” to the Task: Asserting Yourself While Maintaining Relationships – Mind Tools

The word “negotiation” conjures up images of high-pressure situations, where people have a lot to lose if they get things wrong.

In fact, you probably negotiate several times each day. You do it at home and at work for all sorts of things, from deciding what to make for dinner, to settling on terms for a job promotion.

Because of this, you are a negotiator, even if you don’t think of yourself as one! But how well do you negotiate? Do you know how to recognize situations where negotiating is appropriate? And do you understand the elements of an effective negotiation?

In this article, we’ll discuss some of the fundamentals of negotiating successfully, so that you can meet your needs without causing conflict when you do have to say “no”.

https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newCS_92.htm?utm_source=nl&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=08Nov16#np

Making a Great First Impression: Getting off to a Good Start – Mind Tools

It takes just a quick glance, maybe three seconds, for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. In this short time, the other person forms an opinion about you based on your appearance, your body language, your demeanor, your mannerisms, and how you are dressed.

With every new encounter, you are evaluated and yet another person’s impression of you is formed. These first impression can be nearly impossible to reverse or undo, making those first encounters extremely important, for they set the tone for all the relationships that follows.

So, whether they are in your career or social life, it’s important to know how to create a good first impression. This article provides some useful tips to help you do this.

https://www.mindtools.com/CommSkll/FirstImpressions.htm?#np

 

Meeting Your New Team: Taking Your First Steps Toward a Positive Working Relationship – Mind Tools

As a manager, meeting a new team for the first time can be nerve-racking. You want to ensure that the meeting runs smoothly and that you establish your leadership, but you need to do this without destroying the team’s culture or dynamic, or trampling on its achievements.

Being too heavy handed can be disastrous, but not establishing the right degree of authority can be, too. However, when it’s handled well, an informal introductory meeting can be a great opportunity to learn about your team, to build trust with its members, and to establish a climate of mutual respect.

This article will help you to prepare for your first meeting with your team. So, follow these five steps to make your first meeting count.

https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/meet-your-new-team.htm?utm_source=nl&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=01Nov16#np

 

The State Of Medical Education And Practice In The UK 2016 – Kings Fund

General Medical Council (GMC) –
This annual report explores how the medical profession has changed and reviews the education and practice of doctors in the UK. This year’s report raises concerns that the health system and staff working within it are struggling to cope with a range of issues such as the increased pressure on health and social care services. The report outlines the response that the GMC will take to these increased pressures on doctors by taking a lighter touch on regulation.

Report

http://kingsfund.blogs.com/health_management/2016/10/the-state-of-medical-education-and-practice-in-the-uk-2016.html

HR Can’t Change Company Culture by Itself – Harvard Business Review

A strong culture is vital for organizational success – as evidenced by the relationship between culture and leadership,employee commitmentcustomer satisfaction, and innovation. But “strong” doesn’t mean fixed. As the organizational goals and strategy change over time, so too should culture intentionally be changed. The best leaders ask, “Who do we need to be (culture) in order to achieve what we’re trying to do (strategic goals)?” But there’s one barrier that holds many organizations back from genuine and successful culture change: ownership. The first question to ask when culture change is on the horizon should not be, “How do we go about this?” but rather, “Who owns this?”

The answer is, too often, HR… However, true culture change means altering the way the organization lives and breathes. It shapes the way people make decisions, get their work done, what they prioritize, and how they interact with colleagues, clients, and customers. It is really only successful and powerful when business leaders see it as their responsibility, and see HR as a resource for helping them achieve it.

https://hbr.org/2016/11/hr-cant-change-company-culture-by-itself

When You Feel Pressured to Do the Wrong Thing at Work – Harvard Business Review

By now you’ve probably heard the story of the fraudulent business practices at Wells Fargo – the bank that pressured employees to create false credit card and deposit accounts. Have you asked yourself what you would do if you were an employee facing that kind of pressure? In other words, how do you handle a situation in which the incentives seem to be telling you to do something you believe is bad for your customers and clients, or maybe even illegal? And what if it’s clear your boss wants you to get with the program – and your bonus, a promotion, or even your job are on the line?

It’s easy to think that these situations are black and white. Either you go along or suffer the consequences. But sometimes these situations are gray, which I write about in Managing in the Gray. My central guidance is this: When you face a really tough problem, work through it as a manager and resolve it as a human being. This approach can help you avoid stark choices between getting ahead and doing something you believe is wrong.

https://hbr.org/2016/11/when-you-feel-pressured-to-do-the-wrong-thing-at-work

A Simple Smile Could be Key to Your “Approachability” – Mind Tools

First impressions can mean a lot. In fact, in business, your “approachability” can mean everything.

But being able to make that all-important first impression can be more difficult than we think. We might like to believe that we are approachable, open, friendly. But, in reality, how we want to be perceived by others may not always come across…

https://www.mindtools.com/blog/2016/10/27/smile-approachability/

Beyond Bias – Mind Tools

Very few of us would admit it, but we are all biased. Research shows that all of us are naturally drawn toward people like ourselves and are more loyal to them, which inevitably makes us biased in their favor.

This kind of in-group versus out-group dynamic is not just based on how we look. According to lawyer and author Natalie Holder-Winfield (pictured), it can happen whenever people with a particular characteristic are in the majority, forming an in-group. Someone in the out-group, without the in-group characteristic, may be treated differently and will naturally feel excluded.

As examples, the in-group may consist of people who all went to private school, all come from the same town, or all have children. And yes, in-groups may also form when people have the same ethnic background, sexual orientation, or gender.

In our Expert Interview podcast, Holder-Winfield explains how this dynamic translates into bias.

https://www.mindtools.com/blog/2015/04/06/beyond-bias/